Be Responsible

Is it not funny how much we long for peoples approval?

How much productive time is wasted waiting on one to give you a go-ahead

Friends

No matter how well meaning someone is

You and your matter will be attended to at the their spare time

Challenge now is can the person in question sacrifice his own needs for your wants?

I believe one becomes an adult when he become responsible for himself, his actions and his decisions

An adult isn’t meant to be dependent on another to make decisions that will affect him directly

That is not to say you cannot seek direction and advise when in doubt

But if you get to a point where all your life’s decision is influenced by another

Such that the fellow can even brag about it,

Then you really need to grow up

It is annoying when someone says

It was Mr A or Aunty B that influenced me to do it

Don't you have a brain? Is your brain on vacation?

Of what use is your head if it is not being used?

Fellows there is a reason why misbehavior at a particular age was termed as “Youthful exuberance”

Challenge is most adults have refused to grow.

If you need to make a decision

Think it through properly, gather your facts and

Make a decision please make it YOUR decision

Irrespective of the respect you have for whoever advises you

Do not send your brain on vacation because of him

Think for yourself and in all your doings

BE RESPONSIBLE!!!