deep thoughts

I wonder how we have a gem

Treat it as if it is a dung

And when its gone

We resort to desperate acts

Having a sense of "my life will end without it"

"i can give anything to get him/her back"

My question is this

what did you do when you had it?

why dint you feel this way back then?

how come you had to lose it to really appreciate its worth?

The crazy thing is this

Many of those who go about crying for a second chance

Really do not deserve a quarter of a chance

(Why? you would ask)

The truth is

If you lost something so dear

And you have sincerely learnt your lesson

You wouldn't force yourself on it

And scare it with desperate acts and pestering

You will allow him/her to see the change

they have always desired in you

Only then will he decide if he wants you back

Desperation is an emotion worse than indifference

Because it makes one feel all you need to survive is him

And when he comes back, you go back to your normal self

Then all you will see is how ordinary he/she is

And you wonder what was it that even took me back

Why did i waste all this time begging for a second chance?

Then the ill-treatment becomes double of a quadruple

All i am saying is

Its wisdom to know the worth of what you have and

For the guys who feel you must fill every hole

A wise man told me long ago

"never throw away your pot of soup cos of soaking-garri"

If you find an outstanding spouse

Let them know what they mean to you

Because when it all ends all we hold on to is memories

No one truly enjoys to be lonely

Every heart yearns and deserves to be Loved

Treat that Guy like your "prince charming"

Treat that lady more than she deserve

Else you will spend your days singing

Adele's "someone like you"

When others are singing

Bon Jovi's "Forever"

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