Monday, 15 April 2013

Foolishness of Pride



Daily i live with a consciousness of my perception of myself
in the light of how i relate with others
Cos i have discovered that
Life is a race and in this race
There is space for overtaking
He who is at the top today might become middle class
And sometimes at the bottom of the log
Therefore what really determines your relevance, worth and value
Irrespective of your position on this ladder of life
Is your disposition towards others either in pride or humility.
Before you say i am not proud Listen!
I used to think i was not proud till i stumbled on
some definition of Pride which i want to share today

PRIDE DEFINED
i. Wikipedia.org defines Pride as: An inflated sense of
ones personal status or accomplishments.
ii. Merriam-Webster defines Pride as:
- Inordinate Self-esteem
- A Reasonable or Justifiable Self-respect
- Delight or elation arising from some act, possession or relationship.
In view of the above definitions i believe Pride is:
Viewing yourself with a sense of
more importance than others as a result of
Your Class, achievements, Possession or
Relationship (with well placed individuals)
Therefore Pride Speaks when:
a.            you look at another and say "We are not in the same Class"
b.            you say "look at what i have achieved,
              you are worthless cos you have achieved nothing"
c.            you become bloated and oppressive because you
               have a relationship with someone who is well placed.

Come to think of it
What do we have that is not given?
What is our achievement of today that has not been done before?
What would we possess today that will not be outdated tomorrow?
Is it cars, Phones, Houses or education?
That fellow you are bragging about
might just be a second away to his last breathe. So What?

Pride destroys, Humility is key
Treat everyone as equal cos in the end
We are all equal in his sight irrespective of
Clan, achievement, possession or fame.
Our failure to acknowledge that
All we are is dust and ashes and
The possessions we pride in just mass of matter
The illusion
That We are more important than the cab driver,
the gate-man or the beggar on the street
That we are successful cos we are hardworking than the bricklayer or
That we are better placed cos of our educational qualification
Is an evidence of the 

Foolishness of our Pride
                                  
                                         (lord teach me to be humble)

1 comment:

sandra said...

Wow!!! Thoughtful